Archive for March, 2008
Beware the online dating diarist
As a guy, online dating offers nothing more than yet another way you need to learn to approach girls. This is supposed to be easier, in theory, because you’re not in the same place at the same time. The fact of the matter is that online dating works largely the same way that real life [...]
I Like Big Butts and I Cannot Lie
Last week I had drinks with a friend and we started up the age old conversation that always rears its head when you discuss dating - so what are you really looking for? what are you attracted to? After numerous dates, he was complaining that he is just not meeting anyone. So I tried [...]
Breaking up, the right way
So you’ve reached that point in your relationship where you realize it’s just not working out. For one reason or another, it’s time to move on. Sometimes it’s easy to move on because the other person has proven, without a doubt, that they are not the one for you. Sometimes it’s not so easy because, [...]
Awkward Moment #34: The Loud Date
Setting:
You’re on a dinner date in a refined restaurant. Something upscale with candles and linen napkins.
You:
“I’m cool with all kinds of restaurants. I don’t always go to fancy places like this. Just yesterday I was at BJ Brewhouse.”
Date:
Very loudly: “Oh, I love BJs! They taste so good!”
Other patrons:
Drop their forks and look over in shock.
I want to break up with dating!
Strange way to start only my 2nd blog, right… I hear you asking, “You do know you agreed to blog on datingthoughts.com, right Ms. WS?” Yes, yes, I know. But, dating does get old when you’ve done it for 10 or 15 years, right?
So what’s my point then?
I’m saying it to put it out there, [...]
Old-School Etiquette and Chivalry
Here’s a tip, guys. Knowing a little old-school etiquette can take you far on a date. Treat a girl like a lady - which basically means with respect - and you’ll earn major points.
I don’t mean you need to know which spoon is the soup spoon and which fork is the dessert fork. This kind [...]



