Archive for April, 2008
Why Do Girls Go For Assholes?
“I dont need a survey, research, nothing. No empirical eveidence necessary. I’ve seen it with my two eyes. Women date assholes like it’s their job.”
- Murph
It’s a mystery that confounds many men. Why do so many attractive and seemingly intelligent women go for assholes? These guys treat them poorly, disrespect them, and get away with [...]
What’s your type?
It’s one of the most common questions on dates and amongst would-be lovers in the world. If we’re interested in that person, most of our description describes them. Further, we all think we have a type. Some girls like bikers. Some guys like redheads. We all have things that we find physically attractive that we [...]
French Kissing 101
Every girl has a story about the bad kisser. The guy that slobbered all over her face, almost stuck his tongue down her throat, flossed her teeth instead of turned her on. I could go on and on about how terrible it is to have all romantic hope killed by Mr. Cotton Mouth puckering all [...]
Why I hate online dating
There was a time when I thought online dating was great. Really, what could be better? A sea of single people waiting to meet someone else and I get to choose what they can know about me. I can pick the best picture of myself, make myself mysterious…people will like me for me because I’m [...]
Sex isn’t about sex
“It’s just sex.”
I hear people say this time and time again…and then I laugh. I’m not convinced that “just sex” exists any more than I’m convinced that about the possibility that Bigfoot exists. It’s a myth, something we tell ourselves to rationalize a decision we’ve made. In truth, sex is rarely just about sex; there’s [...]
Revenge of the Nerds
Damn you Juno. Damn you for exposing what I have known for years and for making it a movie. You have ruined my dating life. You showed all women how great nerds can be to date and now all these women are after my pool of men.
Damn You.
I am not sure when my love for [...]
Date amazing
When I was younger, I was overwhelmed by the feeling of attraction to a girl. I’d get shy, I’d fear rejection, and ultimately, would suffer in silence without ever making an effort to approach her. The thought of trying and failing was too much for me to bare; how could I possibly recover from something [...]
Life doesn’t wait for you
Through the grapevine, I received notice that another ex-boyfriend is married. As I reminisce about my relationship with Mike, I wonder if he was one of the one’s that ‘got away.’ I remember the incredible chemistry we had but our lives were going in different directions….or was it? At that time, Mike had lost his job and [...]
I’m tired of being single
I’m tired of waking up by myself. I roll over and there’s plenty of room in my bed; there’s no one waiting for me in the kitchen.
I’m tired of eating breakfast alone. I turn on the TV so there’s some noise while I make my food. It’s not conversation, but it’s better than silence.
I’m tired [...]
Saying no, the right way
Most of the time, it’s girls that are being approached by guys. This means that it’s usually the guy getting turned down and the girl having to do so. It seems that as I’ve gotten older, girls really haven’t figure out how to turn a guy down politely but firmly. So please, ladies, read this [...]
