arsehole guys usually have alpha, dominating, leader traits. Many women I notice seem to have this problem of going for them unnoticed of what kind of person they really are. Time and time again they complain about men and that we are all arseholes because they choose to go for these men..Women hate being told they are wrong, they never seem to accept its them that let these men come into there lives when they could go for a nice guy instead

But the thing about all this that pisses me off is that is ”has” to be a game. I’m a VERY straightforward person. I believe in talking to people right to their face and letting them know what I think or how I feel right then and there. I really hate that most girls get kicks playing these little games…expecting me to pretty much read their mind…expecting me to read their body language. I’ve come across quite a few girls in my 23 years of life that I’ve suspected have been quite attracted to me, But 95% of them will not just tell me they like me! It would cut out alot of bullshit if we didn’t have to play games and go threw this whole lame riggimroll. It’s not fucking high school anymore! Grow up! Its time to figure out what you want outta life…People always tell us guys be a MAN…Well I’m saying to you all…Be a WOMAN, figure out what you want outta life…You’re 20′s is the time to do it.

I’m not trying to say I’m a perfect guy, I know I’m not. But seriously…ladies…You’re fucking with people emotion’s when play these god damned games. Flirt with us? Make us think you really want to get to know us better? EVEN GO AS FAR AS TO ASK FOR OUR NUMBER…Then never call us? What the fuck is that?

Sorry if I seem like a dick, but I’ve got a lot of pent up frustration on this subject.

Life is such bullshit man, I work my ass off to even get one girl when I someone else walking around with a new girl every week. What the fuck? Its not fair, I could never be an asshole, I’m sensitive and I treat women like gold but always get dumped. Just once I’d like to find a good girl and keep her long enough to slip her the ring.

I met a girl recently, awesome date, afterwards we kissed passionately in the car and got very heated.

We both said we liked each other.

We met up again two days later and I guess because this had occured I wrognly assumed I was now her boyfriend and I was too familiar. Killed the attraction she intially had because I was no longer a challenge. Big pity too as she was really nice, but now any feelings of attraction I intially have for her are gone as well becuase if a girl had run so hot and cold…well fuck her too! Next!

The way I figured it out is as a “Script”. Women have their own “Script” engraved into their heads as a child. Some see a Prince Charming, some see a Bad Boy, others see the Asshole who changed. In order to get a woman, confidence is needed, in order to keep a woman, you must follow her “Script”. If you want the woman bad enough, you have to pay attention to the long talks and figure out what her Script is. Then you change as her “Script” demands. If she wants an asshole who changes, be an asshole, who “changes” (you dont have to be an asshole by nature to do this, just a good actor). If she wants a Prince Charming, who saves her and protects her, then i suggest you drive her around, and be prepared to have a lazy housewife. If she wants a bad boy, be a bad boy. There are plenty of legal, bad things to do.

However, you could be the nice but confident guy and still lose to an asshole. All it takes is an immature woman. I’ve had this happen several times. I dated a specific girl, beautiful, extreeeemmmeeeeelllyyyy intelligent, funny, sarcastic too. But she was insecure. So a guy who i knew in highschool, who is now living off his brother’s company, flat broke himself, does nothing but fight all day (literally he is a mugger). She went for him because she was afraid of hurting me… Which did happen. I found a great woman i could see myself with for awhile, and lost her because i was human. I was vulnerable. Women want security, and an invulnerable man. Assholes arent humans. Thats why women run to them like flies to honey. The reason the better looking guys are assholes is because they get everything handed to them, and as time goes on, this trait only continues and grows until their mid-40′s where everyone is pretty much done having “Fun”. Of course people past mid-40′s try to have fun, but they have learned moderation by then. So the assholes are up a creek. I also agree with a much earlier comment “The reason i didnt see nice guys as Dating material is because they agreed with me so much that we had nothing to talk about”. Its true. Women want to be able to talk to their partner. The way to best get a woman, is intelligence, have something to talk about that they DIDNT KNOW or DONT AGREE with. It catches and keeps there attention. This can be done without heated arguments. Again, the super intelligent girl was able to converse with me for hours on end because i understood what she was saying but disagreed and made sense. Maybe she’ll grow up one day and things might turn out differently, but as for now. I understand why i dont want to be with her now. Thank you for reading through my ramblings.