Archive for May, 2008
Be confident
Confidence is attractive, plain and simple. The girls that I’ve dated in the past few years have all drawn me in through their confidence. It’s something about the way they talk or the way they hold themselves that really caught my attention; they weren’t trying to get my attention, they took it. And this trait [...]
Don’t Hate the Player, Hate the Game
It all started at a singles party. I didn’t even want to go, but my friend dragged me, kicking and screaming making it clear that my couch, a cheesy movie and glass of wine were not going to happen that Saturday night. The party was at a friend’s house and as we walked through the [...]
A Relationship Rule of Thumb
Here’s a rule of thumb I use whenever I’m in a relationship. It helps me to determine whether something I’m going to do is a good or bad thing.
Would I feel guilty or bad if a friend of my significant other saw what I was doing and reported it back to my significant other? Is [...]
An ode to Emily
I met Emily online. We had exchanged emails and IMs on generic dating site #1 and she had invited me to call her. I called a couple of times, each time leaving a message and never hearing back. Stuck up bitch, I thought to myself. One day, at least a month and a half after [...]
Friends with Benefits: Good or Bad?
This may have happened to you before: a female friend approaches you and asks if you’d want to spend the night, no strings attached. She might even go as far as to specify being Friends with Benefits (FWBs) - also known as Fuck Buddies (FBs).
So you accept. Why the hell not, right? What horny guy [...]
