Archive for June, 2008
Top 10 Things Not to Say on a First Date
If we’re going to be staying out past nine, I’m going to have to call my Mom.
I know we just met and all, but do you have $200 I could borrow?
Will you get a load of that waitress’ rack? It’s huge!
Oh my God, I have those same exact stilettos back home!
You look just like my [...]
Why I love her…
We had only been dating a month when Mark told me he loved me. I looked at him somewhat flabbergasted and felt confused rather than feeling overwhelmed by his declaration. He barely knows me, I thought. He told me he loves me, but I didn’t know what that meant.
Mark and I continued to date and our relationship had a [...]
Dating Older Women
Speaking of cougars, I myself have dated quite a few predatory felines. Older women, I mean.
The oldest was six years my senior. She sought me out. And she fulfilled every guy’s fantasy of dating an older woman. Meaning: she was a horny sex kitten who totally schooled me. OH BOY did she school me.
That’s the [...]
When to ask her out: The stranger
You were just going about your life as normal when she appeared. She may be your waitress, a girl who passed you on the street, the receptionist at the doctor’s office; she wasn’t in your life and then, due to some circumstance, your lives intertwined. You know that your time together is short and you [...]
Continuing the conversation
A little while ago, I wrote about how to start a conversation with someone. Starting the conversation is just a springboard; you need to keep the conversation going after that point to have a chance at a date. For some reason, keeping up a conversation is a problem for a lot of people. Guys in [...]
What do you want?
When you’re single, it’s easy to get stuck pondering how great it would be to have someone. Or sometimes, how much less life would suck if you had someone. But most of the time these are just small fantasies, picturing someone to go the movies with or someone to cuddle up to at night. Have [...]
