Hey Tweety, well I hate to say it but you’re better off moving on. If its been a month and he’s still sorting things out, then there’s more than likely more than he’s telling you.

Lemme ask you this way:
If YOU found a $100 bill while walking down the street, would you pick it up and take? Or, would you walk right over it and say “hmm, better leave that for the next person”…? I think looking at it this way, what I’m trying to say is not that you’re NOT a $100 bill but rather that HE just didn’t realize you were a $100 bill. How long are you going to wait for him to (maybe) realize that? When you know what you want, you pursue it, consequences be damned. I say move on to someone willing to do their all for you.
Good luck.

I think it’s really sad when someone puts themselves in that position because they only set themselves up to getting hurt. By you being around that person, waiting on them to make a decision, you are not helping the matter because you are preventing the person from freely making a decision based on their own feelings, rather, on what you want. Even if you are the one that he picks, when the smoke clears, he might come to realize that he made the wrong decision. I was talking to my friend and she told me, “If you don’t make a move, someone guy is just going to come by and take her away,” speaking of her sister. I replied, “And if that guy does come by and take her away, she was never mine to begin with.” Like I say and will always continue to say, you should never be afraid to lose what you really want.

Often times we go after people we are not really interested in. Its sad but we just want something to go on in our life, than what we were thinking later on.