I didn’t even like him…
We met at a work event. It was his first day, and my 4 month. We chatted a bit - he was new and I was trying to be nice. We decided to grab lunch a few weeks later and then coffee ever so often. I could sense that he was interested in me. I thought he was nice, but he wasn’t really my type, so I innocently ignored any subtle hints he dropped to hang out more.
Two months go by and we decide to have lunch again - and it lasted over two hours. I had no idea where the time went. He was easy to talk to. So easy to talk to. And then the IM started. And then there was more coffee. And there was frozen yogurt.
And then we decided to grab a drink after work. And then 7 hours go by. Okay, so now i am interested in him. Now I might be attracted to him.
Now he has a girlfriend - but they’ve only been going out for a few months. I will keep my distance. I ain’t no homewrecker.
And then we go to the museum together. A one hour exhibit turns into another 6 hours. Enough. I bring up the conversation. We admit we are attracted to each other. He needs to work out his relationship. I find that to be a joke - how is a few months a relationship??
One month has gone by.
He is still working it out.
How did I get myself into this? I didn’t even like him…
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Hey Tweety, well I hate to say it but you’re better off moving on. If its been a month and he’s still sorting things out, then there’s more than likely more than he’s telling you.
Lemme ask you this way:
If YOU found a $100 bill while walking down the street, would you pick it up and take? Or, would you walk right over it and say “hmm, better leave that for the next person”…? I think looking at it this way, what I’m trying to say is not that you’re NOT a $100 bill but rather that HE just didn’t realize you were a $100 bill. How long are you going to wait for him to (maybe) realize that? When you know what you want, you pursue it, consequences be damned. I say move on to someone willing to do their all for you.
Good luck.