Comments on: Be who you want to be with http://www.datingthoughts.com/2008/12/01/be-who-you-want-to-be-with/ Dating advice, tips and experiences | Dating blogs & forums Fri, 03 Feb 2012 04:36:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Josh http://www.datingthoughts.com/2008/12/01/be-who-you-want-to-be-with/comment-page-1/#comment-600 Josh Sat, 20 Dec 2008 05:22:38 +0000 http://www.datingthoughts.com/?p=552#comment-600 So true. Women should be a civilizing influence on men, and if a man isn't moved to become a better person, move on. So true. Women should be a civilizing influence on men, and if a man isn’t moved to become a better person, move on.

]]> By: adam http://www.datingthoughts.com/2008/12/01/be-who-you-want-to-be-with/comment-page-1/#comment-576 adam Tue, 09 Dec 2008 04:41:46 +0000 http://www.datingthoughts.com/?p=552#comment-576 I think Mindy stated an important thing called mirroring. Whatever you think of yourself will be mirrored back from the person your with. To take it further, Mindy is inspired to be amazing because her man is. I think Mindy stated an important thing called mirroring. Whatever you think of yourself will be mirrored back from the person your with. To take it further, Mindy is inspired to be amazing because her man is.

]]> By: Mindy http://www.datingthoughts.com/2008/12/01/be-who-you-want-to-be-with/comment-page-1/#comment-575 Mindy Tue, 09 Dec 2008 04:20:45 +0000 http://www.datingthoughts.com/?p=552#comment-575 This post resonates with me. I'm dating someone who's amazing, and it makes me want to be the amazing girl that he deserves, and continue to better myself. The title of the post, "Be who you want to be with," is well said. The guy referenced in the post has good sense of humor. This post resonates with me. I’m dating someone who’s amazing, and it makes me want to be the amazing girl that he deserves, and continue to better myself. The title of the post, “Be who you want to be with,” is well said.

The guy referenced in the post has good sense of humor.

]]> By: Miss Shell http://www.datingthoughts.com/2008/12/01/be-who-you-want-to-be-with/comment-page-1/#comment-559 Miss Shell Fri, 05 Dec 2008 07:01:48 +0000 http://www.datingthoughts.com/?p=552#comment-559 Wow! That girl needs to do a PSA on every major network. Preferably after shows like "According to Jim". Wow!

That girl needs to do a PSA on every major network. Preferably after shows like “According to Jim”.

]]> By: Adam http://www.datingthoughts.com/2008/12/01/be-who-you-want-to-be-with/comment-page-1/#comment-558 Adam Thu, 04 Dec 2008 10:03:19 +0000 http://www.datingthoughts.com/?p=552#comment-558 This friend is brutalizing this guy. She is obviously testing him because she isn't happy in her own life. The best response to these kinds of questions from women is to either reframe the question back to her or answer confidently. For example: Reframing question: Her: Do you think your amazing? Me: Can your friend handle a guy as amazing as me? Answer confidently: Her: Do you think your amazing? Me: I'm the most amazing guy on the planet (with a big grin and laughter) -Adam This friend is brutalizing this guy. She is obviously testing him because she isn’t happy in her own life. The best response to these kinds of questions from women is to either reframe the question back to her or answer confidently. For example:

Reframing question:
Her: Do you think your amazing?
Me: Can your friend handle a guy as amazing as me?

Answer confidently:
Her: Do you think your amazing?
Me: I’m the most amazing guy on the planet (with a big grin and laughter)

-Adam

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