Comments on: Learning how to be yourself http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/01/17/learning-how-to-be-yourself/ Dating advice, tips and experiences | Dating blogs & forums Fri, 03 Feb 2012 04:36:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Giovanni Azael http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/01/17/learning-how-to-be-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-5736 Giovanni Azael Tue, 04 May 2010 08:07:40 +0000 http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/01/17/learning-how-to-be-yourself/#comment-5736 I believe that before a man can present himself to a woman he must first be presented to himself. What I mean by that is, How can you present someone you aren't comfortable with to someone else? Growing up, my dad always told me that I could get any girl I wanted to. I use to look at him like a bragging old timer. I finally understand what he means now because I now feel that. The reason is because I have come to be comfortable inside my own skin. I now know who I am and have come to accept myself and because of that I'm in a position to give people a reason to accept me. I know my pros and cons and am not afraid to show it and because of that, I'm accepted as real. When I speak, I project confidence and because I believe in the words that I am saying, it shows them that I am sincere. People can feel when someone is being sincere with them because it creates an automatic attraction between them. Bottom line, when you know who you are, you can be yourself, and when you can be yourself, it's really hard for you to lose. I believe that before a man can present himself to a woman he must first be presented to himself. What I mean by that is, How can you present someone you aren’t comfortable with to someone else? Growing up, my dad always told me that I could get any girl I wanted to. I use to look at him like a bragging old timer. I finally understand what he means now because I now feel that. The reason is because I have come to be comfortable inside my own skin. I now know who I am and have come to accept myself and because of that I’m in a position to give people a reason to accept me. I know my pros and cons and am not afraid to show it and because of that, I’m accepted as real. When I speak, I project confidence and because I believe in the words that I am saying, it shows them that I am sincere. People can feel when someone is being sincere with them because it creates an automatic attraction between them. Bottom line, when you know who you are, you can be yourself, and when you can be yourself, it’s really hard for you to lose.

]]> By: Laura http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/01/17/learning-how-to-be-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-5658 Laura Thu, 29 Apr 2010 16:20:46 +0000 http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/01/17/learning-how-to-be-yourself/#comment-5658 Hey, Us girls get nervous too! I actually just signed up with this relationship coach a few weeks ago and have been getting some great guidance and advice about overcoming these fears and to be myself. Her name is Atieno Bird, and her website is http://findyouridealmate.info/. I don't know if you boys are interested in talking about your feelings....but I really recommend her. I already feel more confident and ready to find my guy. Anyway, good luck to you. Hey,

Us girls get nervous too! I actually just signed up with this relationship coach a few weeks ago and have been getting some great guidance and advice about overcoming these fears and to be myself. Her name is Atieno Bird, and her website is http://findyouridealmate.info/. I don’t know if you boys are interested in talking about your feelings….but I really recommend her. I already feel more confident and ready to find my guy. Anyway, good luck to you.

]]> By: gabe http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/01/17/learning-how-to-be-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-3256 gabe Sat, 09 Jan 2010 04:26:21 +0000 http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/01/17/learning-how-to-be-yourself/#comment-3256 Hi. my problem is that when even coming near a girl i like is like riding a bull, its the hardest thing to do, i either get to nervous or i blank out and for some reason always end up being the kind guy who is to shy to talk. dont get me wrong ive tried just ive always come up short handed in the end, i mean do girls even like bigger guys like lets say 250 with like half that wieght in muscle so if any one can give me advice please do so. Hi. my problem is that when even coming near a girl i like is like riding a bull, its the hardest thing to do, i either get to nervous or i blank out and for some reason always end up being the kind guy who is to shy to talk. dont get me wrong ive tried just ive always come up short handed in the end, i mean do girls even like bigger guys like lets say 250 with like half that wieght in muscle so if any one can give me advice please do so.

]]> By: sam http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/01/17/learning-how-to-be-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-2202 sam Sun, 13 Dec 2009 15:32:47 +0000 http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/01/17/learning-how-to-be-yourself/#comment-2202 Hi there. I can see that this thing, this fear of rejection, worries you so much that you give up before even trying. I am a girl and, speaking from my, as well as ALL of my girlfriends' point of view, there are very few men out there who even bother to start a normal conversation. And you kow what? It works. They don't think too much (maybe this is your problem) - they'll just say anything. Usually it's a lot of crap. But the important thing is to keep the dialogue going. For a start. Don't analyse things too much. Just act. Hi there. I can see that this thing, this fear of rejection, worries you so much that you give up before even trying. I am a girl and, speaking from my, as well as ALL of my girlfriends’ point of view, there are very few men out there who even bother to start a normal conversation. And you kow what? It works. They don’t think too much (maybe this is your problem) – they’ll just say anything. Usually it’s a lot of crap. But the important thing is to keep the dialogue going. For a start. Don’t analyse things too much. Just act.

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