Comments on: DITCH those who go DUTCH http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/03/24/ditch-those-who-go-dutch/ Dating advice, tips and experiences | Dating blogs & forums Fri, 30 Jul 2010 14:16:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: sexAFTERsix http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/03/24/ditch-those-who-go-dutch/comment-page-1/#comment-5518 sexAFTERsix Wed, 21 Apr 2010 23:54:46 +0000 http://www.datingthoughts.com/?p=720#comment-5518 @Mike: I agree. Women should offer to pick up the check for other activities, parking or dessert at another place. There should be some sort of balance. I just want to stress that NO WOMAN should be asked to go DUTCH on the first date. Period. Though I must say, as for the option of cooking: YOU should offer to cook dinner for her FIRST. She'll be floored. BUT --- only offer to do so, if you think she's worth it. Bottom line is, a woman likes to be treated like a woman. As much as we gals like to bitch and moan about equality... this is key. Remember that a woman LOVES to feel special. It'll drive you men insane, but it'll be worth it. Trust me. @Mike: I agree. Women should offer to pick up the check for other activities, parking or dessert at another place. There should be some sort of balance. I just want to stress that NO WOMAN should be asked to go DUTCH on the first date. Period.

Though I must say, as for the option of cooking: YOU should offer to cook dinner for her FIRST. She’ll be floored. BUT — only offer to do so, if you think she’s worth it.

Bottom line is, a woman likes to be treated like a woman. As much as we gals like to bitch and moan about equality… this is key. Remember that a woman LOVES to feel special. It’ll drive you men insane, but it’ll be worth it. Trust me.

]]> By: Mike http://www.datingthoughts.com/2009/03/24/ditch-those-who-go-dutch/comment-page-1/#comment-884 Mike Fri, 27 Mar 2009 20:00:59 +0000 http://www.datingthoughts.com/?p=720#comment-884 I don't mind paying for a first, second or third date but it would be nice to be treated to a dinner once in awhile. If a woman would cook me dinner once in awile, I would consider that to be special. A relationship is a two way street. Both individuals have to contribute something more than just their looks! I don’t mind paying for a first, second or third date but it would be nice to be treated to a dinner once in awhile. If a woman would cook me dinner once in awile, I would consider that to be special. A relationship is a two way street. Both individuals have to contribute something more than just their looks!

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