Get responses online

Meeting people online has its issues, but they are not impossible to deal with. You need tactics, as if you were an online pickup artist.

I met my boyfriend, Jason, on I swore to myself it would be the last dating site I would ever join. Since I was still working on my book, and writing about personality types based on the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), I decided to test myself. I wanted to see if I could find my perfect personality match through a person’s online profile.

Of course, I had to know about personality matching. I had read Dr. Alex Avila’s LoveTypes book. I learned my type, ENTP, aka “The Innovator,” is romantically compatible with ENTJ, aka “The General.”

It’s difficult to order a book, read it, and put it into practice in a matter of a few days. So, I’ll try to give a bared down tip…

In the meantime, check out Avila’s LoveTypes book. For a generalization on what that’s about, you can also read Parts IV and V in my AlphaDog book, also available on Kindle.

Good luck!

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Thank you Kim! Your hints were really helpul! And I’m gonna buy this great book you recommended.

My GF broke up with her bf of 7 years. She went on plenty of fish but has had little to no success. All she did was add pix! i told her she needs to stand out and make herself “marketable” those tips you offer is what she needs. I’m gonna get her to buy that book

I think you are right. I have not been looking but the difficulty is that you need to becareful what you are looking for. Yes there is someone for everyone but time and distance maybe the problem it took me till is was 32. So a long wait for the rightone.

MY ex GF contacted me on POF and we just clicked from there on out. I had been burned out before meeting her online. Tired of the run a round with meeting women and not going anywhere. Shes no longer my girlfriend as this August 2011, we will have been married 1 year. We met in 2009 on POF. Ladies you may have to hit the contact button sometimes!

I like what was said here, lately I had been doing that whenever I go on OKCupid. Find something I like and go after her that way, I figure its been getting me more responses though. I would like to see you talk about transitioning after the first message from Guy to Girl perspective.

Hey p.u.a.
Sure. I can write about that. While that stuff is covered by experts like Evan Marc Katz, I could certainly talk about online conversations and how to progress. Thanks for the suggestion!

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