The dream
I was in a large, bright apartment for a party. The floor was a light bamboo and the furniture was all white. A feeling of spirituality resonated throughout. As I moved through the party I came to notice her, my ex. In that moment, everyone else at the party disappeared and it was just her and me. She looked just how I remembered her: casual, classy, and cute. She held a wine glass delicately in her hand as she turned to address me.
“It’s time for you to move on,” she said in her typical calm, matter-of-fact manner that I used to find so comforting.
“I know,” I replied quietly, holding back the tears, “it’s just so hard.”
Then, the scene shifted and I got the distinct impression that she was having trouble in life. I tried to get her to talk to me, but she wouldn’t. This was no longer the girl I knew, and I was concerned.
A man appeared, a man of clear and present authority. I asked him what we could do to fix things for her. He swept us into a side room and closed the doors. A moment later, she had disappeared and I was there by myself, awaiting the guidance and decision of the authoritative man. His voice then boomed: “I choose him for her.”
An old man appeared in front of me. He seemed quite caring and I got the distinct impression that he would become a young man and be sent to take care of her. I was disappointed, as part of me wanted it to be me. The old man began to fade backwards into the wall, being sent to her right before my eyes. I reached out with both arms and pulled him back.
“Promise me you’ll take care of her,” I pleaded.
“Don’t worry,” he said with a kind smile, “I will.”
I let go of him and he faded back into the wall, on his way to be with her.
At that moment, I woke up and, overwhelmed by the dream, cried one of the most powerful cries I have ever had. The dream was so vivid and emotionally charged. We had broken up five years ago and hadn’t spoken in two and a half. But she was never really out of my mind or out of my heart. I took this dream at its face value, that it was time to let her go and allow another man to take care of her.
The dream turned out to be more prophetic than I could have imagined. Just yesterday, I accidentally discovered that she got married earlier this year. She got the exact wedding I knew she wanted. It took place back where she grew up, the place that she loved, and it took place several months ago…around the time I had the dream.
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Dreams aare wonderful things they can help us make the right choose. I dont have many dreams like that as I am really happy. However curently I am have strange dreams regarding sexual desire. I am not sure what it i about but the dreams are broken and I never get to finish the dream.
I dont really believe in god as such, as a scientist is has not be proof. However I do believe that there is something out there but who knows and if this helps people through the good and bad time the so be it
Somewhere dreams are always related to the sixth sense or our subconscious mind. Since your ex does not get out of your mind, you see her in your dreams and with the way you put your dream in writing, it was indeed very emotional.
I believe in a superpower which controls us and our mind and give us strength to walk through the goods and bads.
Some days ago I was thinking about the topic of get a girl out of my mind, after thinking a while, I can say that move on is not that easy, for some girls you met is easy, but there is others that you can’t forget it that easily. In order to move on, I concluded that I need to go and talk to the girl and confess that I like her
In other words, for me I works this way: you can’t go for a new girl, if before you’re not completely sure that the girl you met before (that used to be in your mind) likes you. So you need to confess your feelings, and if the answer is no, then you can move on.
A little bit off topic, but I need to say it.
Zack… thanks for sharing your dream, I think like you said before, sometimes we need something or somebody (maybe God) that tell us in a subtle way, what is the way to follow, and your dream was that for you.