Comments on: Write’em off . . .

By: L.G

L.G — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 00:26:38 +0000

Good for you! I’m at the same point point with someone in my life. Yes, its sad!

By: Dennis Miedema

Dennis Miedema — Sun, 21 Mar 2010 17:07:33 +0000

Hey Cityboy, as a dating coach, I’d like to add my own two cents here. Don’t worry, this is not where I’ll be talking from way up in my ivory tower.

Most guys DON’T get rid of the women that don’t give them what they want and women don’t get rid of the useless men.

Why?

Because most people FEAR CHANGE… a lot. Most people would rather stay with someone so they have someone around and know what to expect…

Than to be all alone and in situations where things don’t seem that certain anymore.

You see, in their minds, breaking up, being single and getting a date again will take a lot more effort than just staying with someone…

But that’s BS, because no effort doesn’t equal being happy AT ALL. Hell, the most precious things in life will come to you after a lot of hard work…

But staying the same is just so much easier and way less confronting, which is exactly why most people don’t get rid of the people that don’t give them what they want.

And if you’re reading this and recognize yourself in what I just described, ask yourself: do I want to be happy… or do I want to be comfortable?

I choose happiness over being comfortable ANY DAY, but do you?

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

By: N Martin

N Martin — Sat, 20 Mar 2010 21:53:15 +0000

You seem secure with your feelings, and it’s great that you’ve taken the opportunity to share your optimism. You understand that to each is own, and you will still continue to live your life believing that there’s someone suitable for you.

I believe you’ve taken the right stance if Kerri truly cared she would make time for you and be true to her word.

By: Caitlin

Caitlin — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 15:39:47 +0000

I completely agree with you. I’ve had this happen a few times and it’s hard not to take it personally at first. But sometimes you have to acknowledge that if it’s not an even friendship or relationship with 50/50 give and take, then it’s not worth putting your effort into.

With someone like her, it’s tough because she doesn’t recognise how lame she’s being. I would probably half continue to invite her to stuff, but only when included as a large group invite. No point in wasting effort calling up or staying diligently in contact when she doesn’t give you the same respect.

By: Dating

Dating — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 07:07:44 +0000

She is just teasing you. She did that to see how you would response or that she is giving a message that she is not into relationship just yet.