Comments on: At least she likes you as a person

By: Rudi

Rudi — Mon, 09 May 2011 18:00:05 +0000

I agreed with Zack, I am 30 years old girl, had the same problem been out on few date with this man that lead me on for few weeks, we had good conversation talk about any think he give me fews sin that in my mind I was think he like me but he was shay maybe to say so i was fed up of waiting and one day I say on email that i will not going to see him again because i like him and he doesn’t like me , so he replay to me saying o let go for luck we will talk better in person so i was think wow i have a chance turn up on the lunch he say to me he was flatter that i like him in that way but he dint like me on that why he like me as a friend , why humiliating me instead of just say on email i don’t want be your friend you fool the just went and defiantly never want to see is face and if i get message from him or phone call will delete because he was cruel and not nice just to come to me and say he was flatter instead to email me and say for me people who do that think that they know better they are loser .

By: Razieh

Razieh — Sun, 25 Apr 2010 16:35:38 +0000

Hey Zack

I was so tired then I typed in google search “I am so tired” and found your article and followed your name and …
Since I am a girl(31) then I think Dennis is somehow right. Take his advice.

Cheers

By: Dennis Miedema

Dennis Miedema — Sun, 18 Apr 2010 09:45:21 +0000

I know just how you feel man. Just when you thought you `nailed it`? Women come out and say something like let´s just be friends or the even worse… I like you as a person.

And I know from my experience: I´m a dating coach and you won´t believe how many of my customers have heard the very same thing you´ve heard.

But here´s the deal: YOU should do the friend zoning. No, I´m not kidding. YOU should be the one saying that a woman will be an awesome friend, that you like her as a person, and more.

When to do that? As soon as you feel the smallest amount of attraction…

Why?

Women don´t want men they can get without much effort. Women love the thrill of the kill as much and maybe even more as us men do.

Think about it: who have been doing the chasing for thousands of years? men have. So, chasing a woman makes you predictable, boring, desperate, something they can easily get.

Being someone they CAN´T get because you say they´re just friends?

Now THAT make syou unpredictable, a challenge, someone that´s not impressed by a woman´s looks… and they´ll go crazy. Seriously, they´ll call you like every single day saying they ´just want to hang out´ or ´to see how you were doing.´

And even if a woman you befriend doesn´t have a sexual interest in you? Don´t forget about HER close group of friends. I´m sure there are some cuties in there. Go and get them!

I always tell women they´re friends almost from the moment I meet them. Now you know why. Start doing it too.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women