About Spicy Duchess
From serial "honeymoon" dating (explanation of "honeymoon" dating forthcoming in future blogs) to serious relationships, my approach and what I look for has changed dramatically. Moms often say that you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince. So how many frogs does it take to find that prince? I can't say I have the answer, otherwise I wouldn’t be using this blog as my therapeutic forum. In midst of my dating trials and tribulations I've learned one thing, that some of those frogs could have been a prince in disguise if given a chance. But how do you know and what are the tell-tell signs? So in pursuit of those answers - it's time to dust off the stilettos and put on a party dress to find that frog who can be a prince in disguise. See you at the ball!
Posts From Spicy Duchess:
Surviving The Awkward First Kiss
Potted Plant’s latest article “The First Kiss” reminded me how critical that moment is during the dating process. The first kiss sets the tone for the possibility of anything thereafter. Some men are great at flirting and creating sexual tension, then smoothly transition into that first kiss. Others, as Potted Plant illustrated, ill at flirtation takes a bad situation and make [...]
How to impress a woman
I am constantly and profoundly stunned at what men consider to be a passable or even presentable form of impressing a woman. To be very clear, there is only ONE thing all women want regardless of the list of attributes she throws at you. You will be amazed how bendable that list is when [...]
Why I love her…
We had only been dating a month when Mark told me he loved me. I looked at him somewhat flabbergasted and felt confused rather than feeling overwhelmed by his declaration. He barely knows me, I thought. He told me he loves me, but I didn’t know what that meant.
Mark and I continued to date and our relationship had a [...]
Life doesn’t wait for you
Through the grapevine, I received notice that another ex-boyfriend is married. As I reminisce about my relationship with Mike, I wonder if he was one of the one’s that ‘got away.’ I remember the incredible chemistry we had but our lives were going in different directions….or was it? At that time, Mike had lost his job and [...]
More than meets the eyes
An agitated co-worker came running into the office after lunch today and grunted about her annoying lunch date. She was set up by a co-worker who felt she was exactly his type, an Asian woman. Despite uneasy feelings, she decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and agreed to the set up.
As she [...]
