About Wing Girl Kim
Having been faced with marriage at least four times (maybe it was five), and offered wealth to be a couple guys' girlfriend, I've learned "the art" of being a guy's date. This has afforded me rare opportunities of becoming a confidante, learning some of my boys' deepest, darkest secrets. (And I will never tell.) Because of my companionship ability, I've found a purpose as a wing girl, helping guys meet women by creating a comfortable atmosphere. As a liaison, I help open lines of communication between strangers and bring more fun into a night or a day out. From all my experiences, I have compiled and developed an approach for dating in the book, AlphaDog, Get The Bitch You Want: A Man's Guide to Dating, by a Woman.
Posts From Wing Girl Kim:
Tasting My Own Medicine
I’ve gone completely crazy. Me, the dating adviser. It’s been 4 months since starting to work with a therapist for 9-11 trauma, and I’ve been blessed by the presence of amazing people who have been supportive. Trauma itself is difficult to overcome. Your brain gets foggy. Events get confused. Memories are like dreams. Feelings are [...]
The Economics of Valentine’s Day Infographic
See how men and women compare on how much they spend for Valentine’s Day.
A Personal Note (A Blog Rather Than an Article)
When I wrote AlphaDog, my dating guide for men, I wanted to make money from my desire to help guys. I had no idea what I would learn. Book sales started off slow. I had no platform and I was unknown. But I had a boyfriend, who I met while researching for the book. We [...]
How to Enjoy the Super Bowl
If you’re not a football fan, but your date is, the first Sunday in February can be a dividing day. But it could be uniting if you knew how to enjoy a good game. The last time the Giants killed the Patriots in 2008 during Super Bowl XLII (42), fans everywhere were on fire. New [...]
New Year’s Dating Resolutions
Was 2011 a tough year for romance? Or for other reasons? Loneliness can be our biggest enemy especially when accompanied by heart-wrenching conflicts. You know, the ones that get us begging to an unseen being, or asking, “WHY?” Whether the struggle is within relationships or fighting through life’s challenges, there is nothing like loneliness to [...]
A Video About Being Alone
This video by Andrea Dorfman and poet/singer/songwriter, Tanya Davis, came out in 2010, but it seems to be making its rounds on the interweb. I thought it would be great to share it here during this holiday season. Ten years after 9-11, this is difficult holiday season for many, including myself having lived one mile [...]
Texas Hold ‘Em Pick Up Strategies
Getting a good hand might take luck, but it takes skill to play a good game. Know what’s in your hand There is no absolute formula for a good pickup. It’s probability. Like estimating the probability of a winning hand from your pocket cards, your chances for a good pickup can be determined from your [...]
What Not to Do on a First Date
You know from first hand experience a lot of things you should and shouldn’t do the first time you go out with someone. Of course people do things that you have no control over that they probably need to pull the reins on. These include, but are not limited to, blatantly trying to determine if [...]
The Bar Scene: Why it’s worth your time, or not
Guys, You drink. Your inhibitions fade away. You find the courage to talk to a pretty girl. You can’t talk to a girl unless you’re drunk?! You are just about the lamest guy on the planet…Just kidding. Though it is kind of lame. I have nothing against bars. In fact, I’m sitting in one right now, [...]
Men’s Shoes (that Women Like)
Guys, want to be a chick magnet? Check your feet, because women love shoes – even on men. Johnston & Murphys are great at the office. However, they’re not ideal when you decide to hit the town Friday night especially when you have no time to change. Guys, always keep a pair of girl magnets [...]
