About Wing Girl Kim
Having been faced with marriage at least four times (maybe it was five), and offered wealth to be a couple guys' girlfriend, I've learned "the art" of being a guy's date. This has afforded me rare opportunities of becoming a confidante, learning some of my boys' deepest, darkest secrets. (And I will never tell.) Because of my companionship ability, I've found a purpose as a wing girl, helping guys meet women by creating a comfortable atmosphere. As a liaison, I help open lines of communication between strangers and bring more fun into a night or a day out. From all my experiences, I have compiled and developed an approach for dating in the book, AlphaDog, Get The Bitch You Want: A Man's Guide to Dating, by a Woman.
Posts From Wing Girl Kim:
What is Love? Part 2
What exactly is love? “Why can’t we just sniff each other like dogs and mate?” “Why do women make this love thing so complicated?” For one, the hunt wouldn’t be as interesting if it was too easy, truly. Being human takes work. To deal with the complex matrix that makes the human brain and find [...]
What Is Love? Part I
In the next few weeks, I will focus on that seemingly ever-elusive topic: love. Personally, I like the idea of lasting love and have devoted the last 3 years of my life to explain in plain English how to have it. Hence, the series: What Is Love? Part 1 – Love: Where did we go [...]
How To Be a Great Kisser
Ever wonder how couples lock lips? This occurs when two people respond to each other’s touch through their lips…Try this: Brush his/her lips with yours while they’re completely relaxed.
When a Matchmaker is a Good Idea
After two marriage proposals, a few engagements, and other relationships I don’t regret, I’ve finally decided it’s time to settle down. I’ve heard that finding a spouse within a year can be done with plenty of proactivity. Unfortunately, I’m lacking the time needed to utilize these tested spouse-finding strategies. So, I decided to inquire matchmakers.
Re-boot Your Love Life
Sadness sucks. It can cause us to think irrationally and do stupid things that we later regret. If it’s really bad, sadness can demotivate or lead to detrimental decisions. This is when having a plan can help.
Like a business plan, which can help a company stay focused on its purpose, a personal plan should be a guide. (Especially during rough moments when making a decision is more challenging.)
A New Start for a New Year
Penny, my 15-pound miniature pinscher, senses something is missing. She paces back and forth, not playing with her toys, looks at her water bowl and bits of kibble, looks at the spot where there used to be another dog bowl. When the other dog was here, Penny was in constant motion. She would only momentarily [...]
Say What You Mean & Mean What You Say
Will you have the courage to communicate the truth to another person of exactly what it is that you really feel about them, good, bad, or crazy? Just try it and see what happens. Go on, I dare you.
The Social Network’s Irrational Man
Those of you who have read my writing before probably have read something about the MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) and Jungian personality type theory. Seeing the movie The Social Network, I’m compelled once again. We constantly hear about women and their emotions– how irrational they can be or how much women flip-flop. However, men can [...]
Wing Girls Make Great Girlfriends
Maybe I’m blowing my own bubble, but I asked my boyfriend and he thinks it’s okay that I write about the wing girl-”great girlfriend” paradigm. I’ll try to be brief. You might already know, or can easily guess, why a wing girl would make a “great” girlfriend. So, maybe this is really for all the [...]
Issues? What issues?
When we’re single, we want a relationship. When we’re in a relationship–an incompatible one, that is–we want to be single. Never satisfied, it’s easy to miss what’s really wrong in the picture. I’m what the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator would refer to as “Perceiving.” Basically, that means that I’m comfortable in a state of indecision. To [...]
