About Wing Girl Kim

Having been faced with marriage at least four times (maybe it was five), and offered wealth to be a couple guys' girlfriend, I've learned "the art" of being a guy's date. This has afforded me rare opportunities of becoming a confidante, learning some of my boys' deepest, darkest secrets. (And I will never tell.) Because of my companionship ability, I've found a purpose as a wing girl, helping guys meet women by creating a comfortable atmosphere. As a liaison, I help open lines of communication between strangers and bring more fun into a night or a day out. From all my experiences, I have compiled and developed an approach for dating in the book, AlphaDog, Get The Bitch You Want: A Man's Guide to Dating, by a Woman.



Posts From Wing Girl Kim:

The Social Network’s Irrational Man

Those of you who have read my writing before probably have read something about the MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) and Jungian personality type theory. Seeing the movie The Social Network, I’m compelled once again. We constantly hear about women and their emotions– how irrational they can be or how much women flip-flop. However, men can [...]


Wing Girls Make Great Girlfriends

Maybe I’m blowing my own bubble, but I asked my boyfriend and he thinks it’s okay that I write about the wing girl-”great girlfriend” paradigm. I’ll try to be brief. You might already know, or can easily guess, why a wing girl would make a “great” girlfriend. So, maybe this is really for all the [...]


Issues? What issues?

When we’re single, we want a relationship. When we’re in a relationship–an incompatible one, that is–we want to be single. Never satisfied, it’s easy to miss what’s really wrong in the picture. I’m what the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator would refer to as “Perceiving.” Basically, that means that I’m comfortable in a state of indecision. To [...]


Making the battle of the sexes fun: A book review

Dating– love it, hate it, play with the idea, or do what Cecily Knobler did when she wrote her book: try to figure it out. She’s Crazy, He’s a Liar, Now What?: A Single Girl’s Guide to Understanding the Sexes isn’t the guide every single person needs, but it is a source of relateable laughter [...]


A Good Man is Not That Hard to Find

Reposted from GoodMenBook.org (November 18, 2009) My mother used to pressure me to settle down. “Get married,” she pestered. In spite of this being the modern world and all, it’s still not as easy for a woman to get a husband as it is for a man to get a wife. And I don’t mean [...]


Get responses online

Meeting people online has its issues, but they are not impossible to deal with. You need tactics, as if you were an online pickup artist. I met my boyfriend, Jason, on plentyoffish.com. I swore to myself it would be the last dating site I would ever join. Since I was still working on my book, [...]


Where to find a good wingwoman

Finding a wingwoman who will help you meet attractive women is like finding a model with enough intelligence to, say, host a T.V. show. Well, Anna Nicole Smith (R.I.P.) hosted her own show, sort of. It’s difficult and easy depending on a lot of factors. The good thing is that you can find someone to [...]


A Video Story

Some of you know about my upcoming book, AlphaDog, Get The Bitch You Want. In preparing for the book’s launch, I’ve made a little six-minute movie. Click the picture to watch it. Enjoy! Rock on! Wing Girl Kim


Meeting women not online

If you want to increase your chances of meeting someone suitable for you, bars are not ideal places. Yet time and time again, when I hang out with guys to be their wing, they just want to go to bars to meet women! It’s one thing to meet a person and click with her on [...]


Your Personality, Online

Words. They seem benign when they stand alone, one at a time. But put them together just so and you can move minds, instigate revolutions, challenge, console, influence, cajole, cause heartache or laughter, emote and organize. The power of words is easy to forget when we feel lonely and worn out, lacking inspiration to present [...]