Advice
The Wonderlic Dating Exam
For those of you who don’t know what the heck the Wonderlic Exam is, it’s a test given to football players entering the NFL Draft every year. What does this have to do with dating? The NFL apparently takes the twelve-minute, fifty question pre daft assessment exam very seriously, so imagine the possibilities if women and [...]
Wacky Date Ideas
My mother hates it when I suggest Buffalo Wild Wings as a dinner place for a date.
She claims I need to pick something classier and better suited to my lady-like personality. I think it’s the perfect place to eat because of the awesome atmosphere (televisions everywhere!) and great food (Boneless Teriyaki Buffalo Wings any one??). [...]
Do sports make a difference?
I LOVE sports.
It started in 2003 when I followed the Chicago Cubs during their playoff run. How exciting (and heartbreaking!) it was to watch a Chicago baseball team come so close to finally making it in to the World Series but ultimately fail due to a little known fan by the name of Steve Bartman. I [...]
A Special Beginning
I spent many hours trying to figure out what my first post would be. Do I go the predictable holiday route or do I vent about the prominent speed bumps in my dating past?
Who knew a trip to my long forgotten Myspace profile would solve all my first post dilemmas.
I revisted a poem I wrote [...]
Approach Pep Talk
You are small. You are anonymous. I mean really, what difference does it make what you do on a day-to-day basis? Do you feel small? Good. You should feel small, because you are.
Think I’m beating you down.
I’m not.
There’s nothing wrong with being small, and anonymous. It’s a good thing . . . really.
Look, if you’re [...]
‘Tis the Season . . .
Two weeks ago, on a Wednesday night, I could not get a drink because all the local bars had an hour wait to get in. This scene was more reticent of New York’s Meat Packing District than downtown suburbia. Then I remembered that it was Thanksgiving weekend and many people were coming home for the [...]
Listen, Feel it, Own it.
I know it’s not going to work, and in my head, I’m already over her.
My heart, on the other hand takes a little longer. I need to stop getting that little adrenaline push when she walks into the room. The twinge of pain I feel when I see her with someone else is almost gone, [...]
7 Ways You Should Ask Someone Out On A Date Before You Get Married Or Die
If you’ve found that dream girl or guy you’d like to ask out but are too afraid to ask face to face, normally you would go for texting or maybe even emailing them. I am now going to list 7 ways you can ask your date you may or may not have tried before, but [...]
Get responses online
Meeting people online has its issues, but they are not impossible to deal with. You need tactics, as if you were an online pickup artist.
I met my boyfriend, Jason, on plentyoffish.com. I swore to myself it would be the last dating site I would ever join. Since I was still working on my book, and [...]
Where to find a good wingwoman
Finding a wingwoman who will help you meet attractive women is like finding a model with enough intelligence to, say, host a T.V. show. Well, Anna Nicole Smith (R.I.P.) hosted her own show, sort of. It’s difficult and easy depending on a lot of factors. The good thing is that you can find someone to [...]
