Advice
How to stop missing someone
It tears at you, day and night. You hate being single. It’s that horrible feeling in your gut. It just won’t go away. You sometimes touch your stomach to make sure everything is still there. Physically, the pieces are in place, but that feeling makes it seem not to be true. It feels like…a hole. [...]
Pursuit theory: The girl’s role
It’s been a little while since I introduced pursuit theory, my theory for how dating will ideally work. I then went on to explain the guy’s role in pursuit theory, being the pursuer and making overt actions to declare your intent for a girl. The other half of the puzzle is explaining the girl’s role [...]
What’s Considered Cheating?
This blog is not short on posts about cheating. We all say its wrong and we all know that it can erode a relationship faster than anything else. But what actually comprises cheating?
Now I know some of you are shocked that I can even ask this question - sleep with someone else and it’s over. [...]
The Singles Blues
I try to live life in vivid color, but my palette is missing red: “make your heart jump” red, “excited to see you” red, “huge smile across the room” red. The colors I live life in are blue (serenity, cool, calm) and yellow (happiness, joy, laughter). Nice colors. But without red, the portrait lacks [...]
Should I tell her how I feel?
Picture this: you’re going about your business one day when a stranger approaches you. He seems nice enough, average-looking at best, and smiles.
“I’m sorry to bother you,” he says, “but I just need to tell you how wonderful I think you are. You’re absolutely stunning and I love your style. Seriously, every day I see [...]
TOP FIVE
Chandler: Well, we have a deal where we each get to pick five different celebrities that we can sleep with, and the other one can’t get mad.
Ross: Ah, the heart of every healthy relationship: Honesty, respect, and sex with celebrities.
Monica: So, Chandler… who’s on your list?
Chandler: Uh, Kim Basinger, Cindy Crawford, Halle Berry, Yasmine [...]
Making a game of the goal
When you’re single, dating seems like a game with a single goal: to find a partner. And when you focus on that single goal, it seems rather daunting. What if you had some other goals to focus on instead? Here’s a few ideas for switching up your dating regime:
Create a “yes” time. A “yes” time [...]
Debunking “When Harry Met Sally . . . ”
Can men and women be platonic friends? Whenever I get into conversations on this topic, someone usually brings up the movie, When Harry Met Sally . . . (1998). This film is an icon for making a case that men and women cannot be platonic friends. The protagonist, Harry Burns argues,
men and women can’t be [...]
Sex School
“I am sitting on the floor with 18 other women… taking a class on how to give a good hand job.”
Now THAT is how you start an article.
A friend just forwarded me the article “What I Learned in Sex School” and wanted to share some of the tantalizing tidbits I’ve taken from it, so that [...]
Online Dating: Google ‘em
In the past 5 yrs I’ve done a lot of online dating. My sister and one of my closest friends both found their husbands online, and they’ve been married for some time now. To those who are skeptical, I often hear: “Oh, but how do you know they are who they say they are?”
Hey, [...]
