Advice
How Much Is Too Much?
I met Sheila a couple of weeks ago, and I have to admit, I am rather taken by her. She’s funny, fun to be around, smart, and attractive. What’s more, she’s new to town, ready and willing to try new things and go to places she’s not been before. At this point, I can’t [...]
Confidence and Charisma: Is it enough to win the woman of your dreams?
If only the woman you want to meet would give you a few minutes to get to know you. Then she would see that you’re worth her time. Confidence should be enough, right? Short answer: Hell, no. You might be a real confident ass. A lot of good that will do. Then there’s charisma. You [...]
What is Love? Part 4 – How To Love Women
How to Love Women This post is specifically for the guys. (Hey, I write for a men’s magazine.) No matter where you are in your relationship with a woman, here are 4 things you can to do to make her feel éros. Listen to her Use touch Be gentle Speak with your body Listen to [...]
What is Love? Part 3 – Where to find it
Where the Heck Is Love? So, where the heck do you find love? Well, the word “love” was spread out across the field during the Super Bowl halftime show this year. Was it there? Maybe it was at the party you went to. Maybe not. Of the three ingredients of éros – attraction, readiness, and [...]
What is Love? Part 2
What exactly is love? “Why can’t we just sniff each other like dogs and mate?” “Why do women make this love thing so complicated?” For one, the hunt wouldn’t be as interesting if it was too easy, truly. Being human takes work. To deal with the complex matrix that makes the human brain and find [...]
What Is Love? Part I
In the next few weeks, I will focus on that seemingly ever-elusive topic: love. Personally, I like the idea of lasting love and have devoted the last 3 years of my life to explain in plain English how to have it. Hence, the series: What Is Love? Part 1 – Love: Where did we go [...]
How To Be a Great Kisser
Ever wonder how couples lock lips? This occurs when two people respond to each other’s touch through their lips…Try this: Brush his/her lips with yours while they’re completely relaxed.
When a Matchmaker is a Good Idea
After two marriage proposals, a few engagements, and other relationships I don’t regret, I’ve finally decided it’s time to settle down. I’ve heard that finding a spouse within a year can be done with plenty of proactivity. Unfortunately, I’m lacking the time needed to utilize these tested spouse-finding strategies. So, I decided to inquire matchmakers.
Re-boot Your Love Life
Sadness sucks. It can cause us to think irrationally and do stupid things that we later regret. If it’s really bad, sadness can demotivate or lead to detrimental decisions. This is when having a plan can help.
Like a business plan, which can help a company stay focused on its purpose, a personal plan should be a guide. (Especially during rough moments when making a decision is more challenging.)
A New Start for a New Year
Penny, my 15-pound miniature pinscher, senses something is missing. She paces back and forth, not playing with her toys, looks at her water bowl and bits of kibble, looks at the spot where there used to be another dog bowl. When the other dog was here, Penny was in constant motion. She would only momentarily [...]
